9 Don’ts and Whys “A nice guy” should keep in mind when dating a woman these days

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My relationship for the last many years with women has given me a tremendous bittersweet experience. It makes me a more bitter person. However, I’m trying to make the best out of it. And transform myself into my best self by sharing these experiences that I’m about to share, it might save a lot of guy’s hearts out there. Also not to make the same mistakes as I did or at least for young guys to educate themselves. This is not to disrespect any women, not all women are like this, I still respect women as always. This is from my experience and from people I know both men and women only.

And sorry in advance for incorrect grammar or typos, I don’t use the English language as my first language.

From a high-value woman (I hate this term — anyways) to a narcissistic one, from dark skin across Asia to a real white European, from a big gap of age to the same age, from post-graduate school to a bar, from a noble one to an uneducated one. I have encountered them all. No matter where they come from, where you meet them, what’s nationality, any backgrounds they have, it doesn’t really matter at all. What I’m trying to say is that woman is a woman, you will never crack their mind. Don’t even bother asking why?

Anyways, let’s cut the crap, I’ll share with you guys some DON’Ts and WHYs according to my experience directly and indirectly, with women in general that I have dealt with. ok cool!!! let’s started!!!

1. Do not trust any women that you just dating now. Why? really!!? it’s so simple, Trust yourself first Please!!!.
2. Do not believe what she says, only action will do. Why? Ahh, she could say anything to get what she wants directly or indirectly. Most of the time you guys need to look at her body language and trust your instinct mindfully. If she says something but does the opposite. Dude!! you’re gonna get some headache for the rest of your life.
3. Do not think that she only has you in her orbit. Why? Dude!! there’s the internet. She can do what she wants, even date multiple guys at the same time these days it’s more than “new normal”. Then you should do the same Hahaha.
4. Even though you haven’t found any of the red flags. she’s gonna drift off and leave you wonder why. Do not rely on her personality just yet.Why? sometimes she has some sort of insecurities going on in her life or she has too many guys to rotate then she shut down herself or taking a break, So, she kicks you out of the orbit to loosen up her energies. Prepare for that shit!!.
5. Do not think about Long distance love, it’s not going to work out. Why? either one of you are gonna cheat one another.
6. Do not date any woman that just broke up with her ex or still has an emotional attachment to the guy. Why? Because, she’s gaining her ego by dating tons of guys at the same time in order to get validation, attention. Then she’s gonna leave you eventually. Because she’s still in the healing process. Guys also do the same Lol
7. Once she ghosted you she will do it again. Do not let it happens more than 2 times, 2 times is super generous, But one is enough. Why? You don’t wanna deal with uncertainty because in the future she might be gone for no reason. You don’t want to get heartache in the future, trust me. Most important thing is that It’s disrespectful. If she keeps coming back and act as nothing happens, it’s a sign of narcissistic traits, I have dealt with once. NOT FUN AT ALL!! Stay away!!! at all cause.
8. When she leaves you no matter what the reason was. More than 90% will come back. Might be a couple of week, months or years. Do yourself a favour, Do not wait!!. Why? It’s simple, She doesn’t want to get back to the relationship, she just curious. Always start with a new fresh relationship, don’t go back.
9. Do not be friends with her, after she broke up with you. She might say “can we just be friends?”. Why? It’s the easiest and the most selfish reason for a woman to dump you without her looking bad. Guess what? When she dumps you for whatever reasons might be, she feels so relieved that finally, you’re out of her orbit, she doesn’t have to care for you anymore.

For those of you that have a long-term relationship, I’m jealous Lollll and glad that you find the one that suits you. This is from my perspective only, as a man. Quote on quote “a nice guy”. Well… at least that what most of my friends say. Hope you guys enjoy dating next time.